Today, I’m going to focus on the mistakes men make during sex. Some men really know what it takes to get down with a woman but a few still don’t get it.
They don’t know much about the sex department except to dip the stick into the honey pot and bring out when it is limp.
There’s a lot more attached to sex than just your own satisfaction.
Sex is an art that involves tenderness, passion, desire, patience and
love. It should be beautiful and amazing!
So, as my weekend gift to all my male readers, here are a few mistakes to avoid while having sex with your partner:
10 Mistakes Men Make During Sex
1. Pursuing your lover only in bed:
After a long, hectic day as you get under the sheets together, you are probably going to skip the preliminaries and go straight for the main event, if there has been no flirting during the day. If you don’t build up expectation and enthusiasm during the day, don’t expect much from your partner.
Women love being wooed. They need to know they are desired by their lovers. You need to let your partner know she’s still as hot as when you first met her. Send her naughty texts when you are not together.
Tell her how sexy she is and how much you want to devour her. Let her know you’re thinking about her and can’t get her out of your mind. Don’t abandon her all day and pursue her only in bed!
2. Not speaking up about your needs:
Another mistake men make is thinking that sex will just happen. They feel they are entitled to it whether the woman in question wants it or not. It’s part of the relationship, right? Well, not really. Your woman doesn’t have the same needs as you. So, if you need some little action, say it.
Don’t expect her to know what you’re thinking. Speak up! Saying “Baby, are we going to have sex tonight?” makes it seem like an obligation or chore. Instead, try being a bit more direct and say “Baby, I want you.” It sounds way sexier!
3. Letting yourself go:
Maybe you’ve been together for a 5 or 10 years and somehow, added some weight unconsciously. Don’t let yourself go completely; a little addition is not so terrible but you need to watch it.
Your partner wants a lover who takes care of himself in every way possible from your basic hygiene, to how you dress, to what shape you’re in physically, mentally, and spiritually. Get some perfume, shave regularly, exercise often, watch what you eat, and keep yourself together.
4. Going down on her too soon, or not at all:
Diving in for the genitals too soon during sex can be a huge turn off for some women. . Your partner needs to be properly aroused before you go down on her. Focus on her whole body. Caress her from head to toe.